Dating site messages that work
Which leads me to my next point: don’t be disgusting.
I can’t believe I have to say this, but based on how frequently I, and friends I know, get creep messages, it’s eternal advice.
The commonality between all these lines is that they’re not pickup lines, in the traditional sense.
A good opening message is genderless — friendly enough that you could text it to a friend, but not so familiar that you’re being creepy.
Luckily, there are a ton of options out there to stand out with an original conversation starter, from asking about an interest to commenting on a picture of their cat to using emojis and GIFs.
"Leverage the uniqueness of the app, if possible," Drew Michaels, founder of Higher Level Dating and The Dating App Formula, tells Bustle. What I would have my students do, in that case, is stand out by NOT doing it, and instead asking “Be honest, (name)…
Sam Biddle wrote a (RIP) piece on the only line you’d ever need: “There she is.” (I personally find this creepy, but maybe it’s the GIF that greets you when you open the page.) Biddle reports overall success.
If you have any questions or would like some support simply contact our customer care team found within the site.It demonstrates that they, too, are into this silly thing that might be a turnoff for others. I’m personally of the opinion that your best bet is an opening message clearly meant for the person you’re engaging with.If you want to be more than a bubble in someone’s DMs, you need to treat them like more than a face in your matches.Then, 22 percent of Hinge users received various conversation-starters to choose from.The one that received the least amount of responses?