Dating websites for plus size people
A large majority of men won't even consider dating someone bigger than 'average' or many won't even consider someone of average size (according to their profile data). OG seems very self-aware and reflective, so I am sure she has considered this.But that's not to say that there aren't men out there that aren't so focused on body size, but the odds IMO are reduced. To use a crass term, sometimes the best way to get over a man is to get under another. OG, I think a lot of the angst with size and online dating is the fact that some people are not honest about it, use old pictures or funny angles. If you are just honest and upfront, with realistic pictures, I am sure you won't have any dramas. In high school a guy and I would just get together. I have no idea so before heading into the world to date again I'm d like to research it a bit.I do think dating as a larger woman would be harder but I think how comfortable you are in your own skin also has a huge impact on how you are perceived.Honestly, online dating is incredibly appearance focused.Yes/No; Free basic profile members can still see photos, edit profiles, search, use discussion board.Paid members can freely message, start discussion thread, no daily limit of disucssion board entries. Members only see intersection of what they are looking for and what other members are looking for. Free messaging and status posting for undergraduates (5 messages/day limit).I am not sure how comfortable you would be dating some who wants to because you are fat though.
I had a friend of mine try and she is heavier and had success.
But I think you need to work on making yourself happy before finding someone else that makes you happy. OG, I mean this in the nicest way, I worry you are obsessed with your weight. He is smart, funny, 6'4" and looks like a 1940s film star.
Surely there is so much more to you than your weight. I would think a truly wonderful partner would be more interested in who you are. He doesn't have a 'fat fetish' he just liked me - individually - as a human. When you've regrouped and got your headspace together again you'll know how to 'get out there'.
Yes/No; While it is free to use, POF offers premium services as part of their upgraded membership, such as seeing the date and time a user viewed your profile and allowing you to see whether a user read and/or deleted your message.
Hi, I am looking forward to dating again but wonder how people who ate fat have found it.